by T Dub
It can be really tough when you are going through a break up and you will feel hurt and wonder how you will ever get over your ex. As time passes and you still miss your ex a great deal you will begin to wonder if there is anything that you can do to get your ex back. Before taking any steps to get your ex back you need to ask yourself the question "why do I want my ex back?"
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by T Dub
Trying to get back together with someone following a break up can be a difficult task. You are not alone being in this sad position of losing the one you love and wondering if there is anything that you can do to win back lost love. Perhaps you were the one who ended the relationship on the spur of the moment following a fight, but now that you've had time to think about it you have realized that you made a big mistake. There is no guarantee that you can win back your ex but there are some things that you can do to help increase your chance of success.
Firstly you need to remember that you are your own person and need to learn to live your life on your own. This is often a big mistake that people make when in a relationship is that they give up their own individuality and forget how to enjoy life on their own. To really love someone else you need to love yourself first so if you can enjoy yourself on your own then you are ready to enjoy yourself with someone else.
Next, look back on your relationship and think about what went wrong. What exactly was it that caused the break up? Was it something that happened as a one off situation that you over reacted to or had the relationship been showing signs of trouble for a long time? If you can find what went wrong with the relationship then you can take steps to fix it.
You need to be sure that you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons. Do you really love this person and want to spend the rest of your life with them or do you just like the idea of being in a relationship? There is no point trying to win back lost love if it is just for the sake of being in a relationship, you really need to be in love with the person.
It is possible that your lost love has moved on with their life and if this is so then you may need to be careful in your approach. This doesn't mean that you can't win them back but it might need a different approach. If you approach your ex with their new partner and try to get them back then they may think you're a little crazy. You also shouldn't approach their new partner and make threats or even constantly tell them how she should be with you and not him. It would be best to get your ex on her own and discuss the situation with her and if she has any feelings left for you at all then she should be willing to discuss the situation. If she has no feelings for you anymore and is in love with this new person then you will need to let her go and move on.
People change over time so if this relationship ended quite some time ago then the person you were once with may have changed and not be the same person you were in love with. You may think you want her back and when you get to know her again you may realize that you don't love this person anymore. You will also have changed over time and the two of you may not be a perfect match anymore. It is possible that you could fall in love with each other again so it is worth a try but just remember that you have both changed so things might not be what you expect.
You will need to take time to rekindle the relationship and get to know each other again so don't go rushing into anything. If you are realistic about the situation there is no reason why you can't win back lost love and have a happy future together.
TW (T Dub) Jackson from Magic of Making Up
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by T Dub
Going through a break up or a divorce is never an enjoyable thing to do. There are kinds of bad feelings, even if the split is a friendly one. You may feel sad, angry and confused, and may hope to never see your ex again. But, then...something changes. As some time goes by you realize that you actually want to win love back. In other words, you want to patch things up and be with your ex again.
The good news is that just about any relationship can be saved. You will have to follow a good plan and be willing to do what needs to be done to make it happen. It won't always be easy, but it is possible. In fact, just knowing it's possible can be very motivating when things get tough.
The approach you use to win love back will vary slightly based on your specific situation. That's because no two people, and no two relationships are the same. However, there are some basics that virtually everyone can use for their benefit. You will probably see all kinds of advice on how to get back with your ex. The key is to ignore the stuff that doesn't apply to you, but to also take action on the advice that does apply.
Knowing this means you can start seeking advice from different sources. A good first-stop source is friends and family. Just about everybody has gone through a break up at some point in their lives. And who knows, maybe some of them are now happily married to somebody they broke up with many years ago. Talking to them will not only serve to give you some good ideas on how you can get back together with your ex, but it will also give you an emotional outlet where you can discuss things with the people that care about you.
Another good source of advice is things like books, guides and websites. There is all kinds of information out there. Information that was written by people with a lot of experience and credentials. However, if it comes down to experience or credentials, it makes more sense to trust the former as how to win love back isn't something that should be relegated to theory. Go ahead and pick up a copy of a book, but remember that it is up to you to actually follow through on the advice.
After a break up most people will try to talk to their ex. The thinking is that all they need to do is explain how they really feel, or beg for a second chance. This is a mistake. You both need time and space to come to terms with what has happened, so jumping in too soon will only backfire. That's not to mention that your emotions are going to be running high, and that means there is a greater chance that you will say something you only regret later.
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by T Dub
You know, relationships are great...when they are going well. You feel awesome, and there are times when you are so content that you can't imagine them getting any better. That's all well and good, but unfortunately, not all relationships last. Yes, we are talking about the dreaded break up. When this happens we feel downright awful.
If this has happened to you recently, then you know how bad it can be. Maybe you saw it coming for quite some time, or maybe it happened suddenly. Either way, you want to know about the possibility of saving your relationship. There is a silver lining to the dark cloud that's hanging over you, and that is the fact that most relationships can be saved. The catch is that you have to follow a proven plan, and you have to be willing to do whatever it takes to work things out.
All of your feelings, as bad as they may be, are normal. You have been through a lot, and you will have good days, and not-so-good days. While it's okay to feel awful, you shouldn't let it take over your life, and it should only be temporary. Go ahead and feel bad for a while, but then work on clearing your head so you can move on to the next step of saving your relationship. This may sound impossible but you will have an easier time with it if you can keep your ultimate goal in mind.
Head cleared? Great! The next thing to do is unearth what went wrong. The problem is that we are quick to notice those things that are on the surface, but that won't quite cut it. For example, you may think the problem is arguing. But the truth is that arguing is only the symptom of a deeper issue. Your task is to figure out what those deeper issues are. After all, you can't fix it if you don't know what's really broken.
Now that you know what the real problems, it's time to roll up your sleeves and start fixing them. You really only have a few choices as to how you can handle them. You can ignore them, fix them, or forgive them. It will all depend on how serious the problem is, and how likely it is that it will have an effect on the two of you if you should get back together. Small problems that don't really mean much can often be ignored. Problems that affect how the two of you interact with one another should be solved. Problems that only came up once or twice, but were somewhat major can be forgiven. Of course you and your ex will have to decide what is best for each issue.
Following these steps will put you on the right track to getting back together again. Keep in mind that saving a relationship is going to take some effort, but the best things in life often do.
TW (T Dub) Jackson from Magic of Making Up
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Many of us get dumped and we're really not ready for the relationship to be over. In some cases we are the ones who do the dumping only to have regrets after a little time has passed. Whatever the situation is, here is the best way reuniting after a breakup.
I know some of this information can seem counter intuitive, but this method has helped thousands, maybe more, of couples reunite and after all, you don't have anything to lose at this point, do you?
So, I'll break it down in more detail and give you a step by step breakdown of just what you need to do:
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Want to know what the best way relationship get ex girlfriend back method is? Well, I can not only tell you the best way to get her back, I can also tell you the worst thing you can do if you really want her back. Now, pay attention...
The hardest thing in the world to do is to give your ex space. It's so easy to worry that if you don't talk to her and let her know how you feel, she will think you don't care and she will find someone else. Most of us have felt this fear at one time or another.
The fact is though that that is not the way it works. When we love another person, that love doesn't just disappear (though there are times when we wish it would). You may never fully get over someone, but even it you do, it will take a long time and not just a few weeks.
So, giving your girl a little space and time away from you won't let her get over you more quickly, it will do just the opposite. You see, part of the thing you want to do is to have your ex really miss you. It's important that she really faces the reality of life without you in it. How can she do that if you're always around? She can't. That is why you need to give her space.
Another reason why space is such a good idea is that you don't want her to think of you as a pathetic loser who will always be waiting in the wings if she decides to give you a few crumbs of her attention. It's important that you remind her of the strong man you are and not a pathetic doormat.
It is also a good idea to figure out what things you did wrong to cause the problems in the relationship. I'm not saying that all the problems were your fault, but I'm sure that you contributed a few issues here and there. Since you've got some free time on your hands, why not address those issues and make some changes?
This step is especially important if you were the main cause of problems in the relationship. I'm not talking about some issues like leaving the toilet seat up, I'm talking about the serious stuff like infidelity, lack of respect, and overall insecurities that "made" you act like a jackass and hurt your girl.
No one is perfect, and I'm sure your ex had her fair share of issues and character flaws, but for right now, concentrate on those things that you can change and at this point that is you and your behavior.
We live in a "quick fix" society. We expect things to happen quickly and be easy. That is especially true when it comes to getting over painful situations.
It's not bad that you want to find the best way relationship get ex girlfriend back and that you want to do it quickly, it's just not very realistic that it will happen quickly. Be willing to invest the time needed and your chances of getting her back will go up dramatically.
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by T Dub
Well, I have good news and I have bad news when it comes to fastest way relationship help. Which do you want to hear first? OK, the good news first: no matter how messed up your relationship might seem right now, it can be saved. I'm not saying it will be easy but if you are both interested in making things work, you will most likely find a way.
Having both partners on the same page is huge and the difference between success and failure.
The bad news is that it's rare for this process to happen quickly. It will probably take quite a bit of time for both of you to get over yourselves and find the love and patience it will take to work together and find solutions to your problems.
So, I guess you need to stop and ask yourself a question; are you willing to invest the time and effort it will take to identify and change the behaviors that lead to the troubles in your relationship in the first place?
If you can't honestly answer that question with a "yes" it may mean that you simply don't care about your partner or your relationship as much as you thought you did and it may be time to pack up and move on.
Even if you can answer "yes" to that question, your partner has to honestly be able to answer "yes" too. It's far too common for one partner to care more about the relationship than the other. The partner who is more interested in working things out will often be willing to do more of the work.
The problem is that this won't work out in the long term.
A relationship is a partnership and any good partnership needs to have a fair division of labor. If one partner works harder than the other, it will lead to resentment eventually.
Helping your relationship will focus mainly on identifying where the problems are coming from and how to fix them. This must start with the individuals in the relationship. You may fight over little things like not doing the dishes or forgetting to take out the trash, but that isn't the real problem.
I don't know what the real problem is but I know it goes deeper than these annoyances. The problem is, especially if the two of you have been together for a long period of time, it's sometimes hard to identify just what the underlying causes for all the resentment are.
It could be something(s) that happened years ago. Sometimes, this can be helped by enlisting the aid of a therapist or counselor. Having an objective third party help you both sort things out can be a real lifesaver.
You can go it alone or have someone help guide the two of you through the land mine that your relationship has become, either way you should know that you can pull it back from the brink and the fastest way relationship help just might not be that fast.
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by T Dub
Break ups are hard and most of us have been through them at some stage. Some guys can act like real jerks when it comes to breaking up or perhaps act like jerks beforehand which has caused the break up. They may not mean to act like jerks, it's just their nature, but if you have acted like a jerk and as a result lost the woman you love then it has become a problem. Women will also put up with bad behavior for so long and then they won't take it anymore. So if you want to get a woman back maybe it's time you stopped acting like a jerk!
Of course you don't want to change the person that you are to suit anyone but if the way that you act hurts or offends others then perhaps it is time to change. Here are some tips on how you can get a woman back even when you've acted like a big jerk.
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by T Dub
Most of us have been there at some point. We are in a fantastic relationship and everything is going well but then something happens. The next thing you know you are on your own and the relationship has ended. This is a tough time in a person's life; there is no doubt about that. You are left all alone wondering what went wrong. You are hurting but time heals all wounds right? But not everyone is happy waiting for time to heal their pain. If you know that this break up was a mistake and this person is the one you want to spend your life with, then there are steps you can take to win your love back.
The first thing you need to do is clear your head. Cry if you need to and get it all out. Go for a walk and try not to think about anything, I know this is hard when all you can think about is your ex, but you really need to clear your head so you can think clearly when you decide what action you are going to take. Next you need to take a really good, honest look at the relationship at decide whether it really is what you want. If it is then you need to think about what went wrong in the relationship and ask yourself if you have what it takes to put this relationship back together.
There are many broken relationships that get back together, some of them last and some of them eventually end. So you only want to put a relationship back together if you are really sure this is what you want. If your relationship ended over something simple that can be fixed then fix the problem and get back together. If your relationship has been showing signs of trouble for a while then it may be harder to fix things, but it is possible. If you really do want to win your love back then you need to work at it.
Think about what went wrong with the relationship. Did you both grow apart or was there something specific? Were you obsessive and jealous with your partner? Were you constantly asking her where she's been and what she's been doing? Did she know that you didn't trust her? These are all common reasons for broken relationships and these are issues that could take some time to deal with. If you have any insecurity issues then you may need to see a counselor to work through them. If this relationship is worth saving then you need to take the necessary steps to save it.
When you have found what went wrong with the relationship and you think it can be resolved then talk to your ex about the relationship and what steps you are willing to do to make it work. If there are problems with both partners then you may need to work together to make the relationship work. Relationships aren't always easy and they take a bit of effort and compromise to make them work. If you are willing to do this then you can win your love back and have a long, happy relationship together.
TW (T Dub) Jackson from Magic of Making Up
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